An old axiom supports the premise that “you get what you give.” Many attest to its validity, but sometimes a little more intentionality is called for. When gifts become expectations, then grace ebbs from the equation, sometimes without our awareness.

Unfortunately, the prosperity gospel is alive and well within many religious groups, amplified by the notion that if we had just a bit more disposable income that life would suddenly be grand and that God will bless us financially as of an elect few. Granted, there is truth to the understanding that more income can be helpful to deal...